{"id":5453,"date":"2023-09-17T15:52:32","date_gmt":"2023-09-17T15:52:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zanpetek.si\/?p=5453"},"modified":"2023-11-22T11:08:06","modified_gmt":"2023-11-22T11:08:06","slug":"zakaj-so-spremembe-na-samem-sebi-velikokrat-obsojene-na-propad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zanpetek.si\/en\/2023\/09\/17\/zakaj-so-spremembe-na-samem-sebi-velikokrat-obsojene-na-propad\/","title":{"rendered":"ZAKAJ SO SPREMEMBE NA SAMEM SEBI VELIKOKRAT OBSOJENE NA PROPAD"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Vsakega enkrat doleti trenutek, ko bi si \u017eelel sprememb v svojem \u017eivljenju. Naj gre za izgubo telesne te\u017ee oz. spremembe telesne postave, spremembe \u017eivljenjskega sloga, spremembe na karierni poti, osebni rasti itd.<\/p>

Tak\u0161ni podvigi so sicer hvalevredni, a za mnoge so ti \u017ee na za\u010detku obsojeni na propad.<\/p>

Pasti je veliko, napak pa \u0161e ve\u010d.<\/p>

Katere so najpogostej\u0161e?<\/p>

NEJASNI CILJI<\/strong><\/p>

Predstavo o tem kar nas moti na sebi in kaj bi \u017eeleli spremeniti sicer imamo, a ponavadi je kon\u010dna destinacija neznanka.<\/p>

Ena najpogostej\u0161ih napak, ki jo marsikdo stori je, da nima jasno oz. dobro opredeljenih ciljev.<\/p>

Brez na\u010drta se hitro izgubi tako fokus kot tudi smer.<\/p>

Cilji morajo biti jasno postavljeni, specifi\u010dni, merljivi, dosegljivi in ustrezno \u010dasovno omejeni.<\/p>

Le tak\u0161en pristop bo pove\u010dal mo\u017enost uspeha.<\/p>

ZANEMARJANJE ALI SLABO NA\u010cRTOVANJE<\/strong><\/p>

Brezglavi skoki v spremembe lahko hitro pripeljejo do frustracij in razo\u010daranj. Raziskovanje in oblikovanje strategije pa lahko pomagata prepoznati potencialne izzive.<\/p>

Hkrati pa tudi to, da si enostavno poi\u0161\u010demo ustrezno strokovno pomo\u010d, ki bo pot vsekakor olaj\u0161ala in pospe\u0161ila.<\/p>

PODCENJEVANJE<\/strong><\/p>

Vidne spremembe ponavadi zahtevajo ve\u010d \u010dasa in truda, \u010desar pa se ponavadi ne zavedamo. Spremembe in navade se ne zgodijo skozi no\u010d, potrebno je biti tudi potrpe\u017eljiv, kar pa ponavadi ljudje nismo. Zato se velikokrat zgodi, da cilj opustimo.<\/p>

STRAH PRED NEUSPEHI<\/strong><\/p>

Velikokrat nekaj ostane samo ideja ali \u017eelja, saj je strah pred potencialnim neuspehom prevelik.<\/p>

Dejstvo pa je, da je ob\u010dutek ob\u017ealovanja mnogo bolj neprijeten kot ob\u010dutek neuspeha.<\/p>

Potencialni neuspeh bo \u0161e vedno ponudil novo prilo\u017enost. Ob\u017ealovanje za ne\u010dim, \u010desar se nikoli nismo lotili pa bo ostalo za vedno.<\/p>

IGNORIRANJE KONSTRUKTIVNIH KRITIK IN DOBRONAMERNIH NASVETOV<\/strong><\/p>

Kritike in nasveti, ki so sicer dobronamerni lahko \u201cudarijo\u201d na posameznikov EGO. Tak\u0161no obna\u0161anje pa lahko zaustavlja in ovira napredek. Kritike in nasveti, ki so na \u201cmestu\u201d so lahko dragoceno orodje za napredek in izogibanju morebitnih napak ter potencialnih preprek.<\/p>

PRIMERJAVA Z DRUGIMI<\/strong><\/p>

Nenehna primerjava z drugimi lahko hitro povzro\u010di demotiviranost, \u0161e posebej takrat, ko nam ne gre vse po na\u010drtih.<\/p>

Tudi lasten dose\u017eek se lahko zdi v\u010dasih manj vreden, \u010de ga primerjamo z dose\u017eki drugih.<\/p>

Primerjava z drugimi bo velikokrat nesmiselna. Ljudje si med seboj nismo enaki. Nekaterim bo nekaj la\u017eje dosegljivo kot drugim.<\/p>

Kot tudi to, da ne poznamo poti, vlo\u017eka in na\u010dina kako je nekdo dosegel cilj.<\/p>

NE PRILAGAJANJE TRENUTNI SITUACIJI<\/strong><\/p>

Vsi vemo, da se v\u010dasih enostavno zgodi \u201c\u017eivljenje\u201d in bodo potrebna prilagajanja in spremembe prioritet. Te\u017eava nastane, \u010de se ne znamo ali se te\u017eje prilagajamo danim situacijam in spremembam. To velikokrat vodi v oviranje zadanemu cilju kot tudi v opustitev le-tega.<\/p>

To pa ponavadi v prvi vrsti sploh ni potrebno, saj bodo velikokrat zadane situacije in spremembe le za\u010dasne.<\/p>

Spremembe na sebi bodo zahtevale tako premislek kot tudi dolo\u010deno mero na\u010drtovanja.<\/p>

Seveda se bodo pristopi razlikovali od posameznika do posameznika, a vendar, z izogibanjem tem pogostim napakam si lahko pove\u010damo svoje mo\u017enosti za uspe\u0161no obvladovanje vseh izzivov, povezanih s spremembami.<\/p>

Padci, pa se le naravni del poti.<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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